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Monday, July 4, 2016
The man cheated and left. What his wife did to restore the family and her life is amazing
Cheating is one of the top reasons why marriages fall apart. However, this woman stayed in even after her husband got an affair. Why she did it and what happened next is unbelievable!
Her story starts with a single sad fact ; her husband gave up on their marriage, cheated on her and found someone else. She was hurting over his cheating so much. Moreover, that in her family she never had a dad or even a grandpa. She longed for the male love and attention so much; she craved it. So, when she finally met the one and got married, she expected things to change for better.
The marriage was not a terrible one, neither it was great. The couple got children, and she tried to do her best for them to have a happy home with the daddy and mommy in it. But she ended up alone with kids on her hands, just like her mother!
She did not try to put all the blame on her husband either. What she did was amazing. At that time the woman turned to the Lord to get the strength and carry on her life.
She felt a real transformation touch on her life. Never before she felt loved or even worthy of love. She hated her own self and blamed his cheating on being a poor wife. The Lord gave her freedom and power to love herself. Till this time she kept on searching for that special person, who would love and accept her unconditionally and eventually she found them.
God loved her so much, and He enabled her to fall in love with her self. She forgave herself and accepted unconditionally. No longer was she dependent on the opinions of other people or on their willingness or refusal to give her the much-craved love.
She took a stand for her husband in prayer. After a while, he decided to go back to his family and fight for it one more time. A real surprise to the man was his transformed wife. One wound at a time her heart got healed, and she became capable of forgiving and loving him once again. Today his cheating is in the past, and their family is happy and fully restored.
If you ask a question: is there life after the cheating? Yes, there is. Even if the cheating spouse would not choose to return, you can find the eternal source of love. God is enough to supply all your needs, restore your personality and teach you how to love yourself!
Her story starts with a single sad fact ; her husband gave up on their marriage, cheated on her and found someone else. She was hurting over his cheating so much. Moreover, that in her family she never had a dad or even a grandpa. She longed for the male love and attention so much; she craved it. So, when she finally met the one and got married, she expected things to change for better.
The marriage was not a terrible one, neither it was great. The couple got children, and she tried to do her best for them to have a happy home with the daddy and mommy in it. But she ended up alone with kids on her hands, just like her mother!
She did not try to put all the blame on her husband either. What she did was amazing. At that time the woman turned to the Lord to get the strength and carry on her life.
She felt a real transformation touch on her life. Never before she felt loved or even worthy of love. She hated her own self and blamed his cheating on being a poor wife. The Lord gave her freedom and power to love herself. Till this time she kept on searching for that special person, who would love and accept her unconditionally and eventually she found them.
God loved her so much, and He enabled her to fall in love with her self. She forgave herself and accepted unconditionally. No longer was she dependent on the opinions of other people or on their willingness or refusal to give her the much-craved love.
She took a stand for her husband in prayer. After a while, he decided to go back to his family and fight for it one more time. A real surprise to the man was his transformed wife. One wound at a time her heart got healed, and she became capable of forgiving and loving him once again. Today his cheating is in the past, and their family is happy and fully restored.
If you ask a question: is there life after the cheating? Yes, there is. Even if the cheating spouse would not choose to return, you can find the eternal source of love. God is enough to supply all your needs, restore your personality and teach you how to love yourself!
Wednesday, June 22, 2016
How long should s3x last? Avoid being a one-minute man
So, how many minutes of sex are enough, and how many are too few?
The pressure put on men to last longer in bed is epitomized in modern pop culture by rapper Missy Elliot who sings how she doesn’t want “no one-minute man,” and dancehall artist Ms. Thing who needs a “one-, two-, three-hour man.” Most men don’t want to finish first in the bedroom for fear of coming up short.
So, how many minutes of sex are enough, and how many are too few?
In an article for The Conversationalist, Dr. Brendan Zietsch, a psychologist from the University of Queensland, writes about what he has learned researching how long heterosexual couples report penetrative sex actually lasts.
He writes: "I know there’s a lot more to sex than putting the penis into the vagina and ejaculating, but the rest is not always easy to define (kissing? Rubbing? Grinding?). To keep things simple and specific, we’ll just focus on the time to ejaculation."
How do we define the beginning and end of sex? The definition is penis-centric. Zietsch measured the official time from penetration to ejaculation by observing data from 500 couples around the world who used a stopwatch to time their sex acts over a four-week period. Participants pressed "start" at the time of penile penetration and "stop" at ejaculation. A stopwatch was the preferred method of choice because people are more likely to be biased if simply asked how long they take without proper measure. Also, it’s a difficult measure since people don't normally stare at the clock while having sex.
The findings revealed the average time for each couple, across all the times they had sex, ranged from 33 seconds to 44 minutes. Meanwhile, the average across all couples was 5.4 minutes. This means a couple will typically go for an average of 5.4 minutes every time they have sex.
Interestingly, condom use and circumcision did not affect duration in the bedroom. Some men believe condoms make them lose an erection because it removes all the sensitivity and feeling. However, a 2015 study found heterosexual men aged 18 to 24, who cited condoms as a barrier to an erection, were more likely to be suffering from general erectile dysfunction whether or not they used a condom.
Meanwhile, the country of origin did not affect sex duration, unless the couples came from Turkey, which tended to be significantly shorter (3.7 minutes) than couples from other countries. A couple’s age did influence how long sex lasts, with the older the couple, the shorter the sex.
Depending on what side of the sex duration spectrum men fall on, an average of five minutes could be good or bad. But, according to a 2008 study of United States and Canadian sex therapists, sex that is “too short” lasts one to two minutes, “adequate” lasts three to seven minutes, and “desirable” is seven to 13 minutes. The range for “too long” went from 10 to 30 minutes.
It seems that anything longer than ten minutes is ideal, but unusual.
So, how long does sex really last? Clearly there’s no “normal” definition.
When it comes to the heat of the moment, pleasure has no number.
Source: Medical daily
The pressure put on men to last longer in bed is epitomized in modern pop culture by rapper Missy Elliot who sings how she doesn’t want “no one-minute man,” and dancehall artist Ms. Thing who needs a “one-, two-, three-hour man.” Most men don’t want to finish first in the bedroom for fear of coming up short.
So, how many minutes of sex are enough, and how many are too few?
In an article for The Conversationalist, Dr. Brendan Zietsch, a psychologist from the University of Queensland, writes about what he has learned researching how long heterosexual couples report penetrative sex actually lasts.
He writes: "I know there’s a lot more to sex than putting the penis into the vagina and ejaculating, but the rest is not always easy to define (kissing? Rubbing? Grinding?). To keep things simple and specific, we’ll just focus on the time to ejaculation."
How do we define the beginning and end of sex? The definition is penis-centric. Zietsch measured the official time from penetration to ejaculation by observing data from 500 couples around the world who used a stopwatch to time their sex acts over a four-week period. Participants pressed "start" at the time of penile penetration and "stop" at ejaculation. A stopwatch was the preferred method of choice because people are more likely to be biased if simply asked how long they take without proper measure. Also, it’s a difficult measure since people don't normally stare at the clock while having sex.
The findings revealed the average time for each couple, across all the times they had sex, ranged from 33 seconds to 44 minutes. Meanwhile, the average across all couples was 5.4 minutes. This means a couple will typically go for an average of 5.4 minutes every time they have sex.
Interestingly, condom use and circumcision did not affect duration in the bedroom. Some men believe condoms make them lose an erection because it removes all the sensitivity and feeling. However, a 2015 study found heterosexual men aged 18 to 24, who cited condoms as a barrier to an erection, were more likely to be suffering from general erectile dysfunction whether or not they used a condom.
Meanwhile, the country of origin did not affect sex duration, unless the couples came from Turkey, which tended to be significantly shorter (3.7 minutes) than couples from other countries. A couple’s age did influence how long sex lasts, with the older the couple, the shorter the sex.
Depending on what side of the sex duration spectrum men fall on, an average of five minutes could be good or bad. But, according to a 2008 study of United States and Canadian sex therapists, sex that is “too short” lasts one to two minutes, “adequate” lasts three to seven minutes, and “desirable” is seven to 13 minutes. The range for “too long” went from 10 to 30 minutes.
It seems that anything longer than ten minutes is ideal, but unusual.
So, how long does sex really last? Clearly there’s no “normal” definition.
When it comes to the heat of the moment, pleasure has no number.
Source: Medical daily
Monday, June 6, 2016
The 4 Stages Of Relationship: Which Stage Is Yours At?
There Are 4 Stages To Every Relationship
So it turns out that there are 4 stages to every relationship. Some of these stages may surprise you, while others may seem pretty familiar. Read on to find out the 4 stages.
1. The Romance Stage
The first stage to any relationship is the romance stage. We fall in love as a kind of survival instinct, as we are programmed genetically to have offspring. Love is just nature's way of encouraging us to procreate.
2. The Power Struggle
The second stage of relationships is the power struggle. This is where both partners find out that their "love" wasn't actually love at all, and fights start to happen as the partners begin to find out about each other's flaws.
3. The Stability Stage
The third stage is the stability stage. Most couples never reach this stage, as the relationship usually ends in the power struggle stage. This occurs when both partners have figured out a way to deal with their conflicts.
4. The Comfort/Commitment Stage
The commitment stage is the fourth stage of relationships. This occurs after both partners have gotten used to each other, and want to prove to each other that their love is real by committing to a long future together.
So it turns out that there are 4 stages to every relationship. Some of these stages may surprise you, while others may seem pretty familiar. Read on to find out the 4 stages.
1. The Romance Stage
The first stage to any relationship is the romance stage. We fall in love as a kind of survival instinct, as we are programmed genetically to have offspring. Love is just nature's way of encouraging us to procreate.
2. The Power Struggle
The second stage of relationships is the power struggle. This is where both partners find out that their "love" wasn't actually love at all, and fights start to happen as the partners begin to find out about each other's flaws.
3. The Stability Stage
The third stage is the stability stage. Most couples never reach this stage, as the relationship usually ends in the power struggle stage. This occurs when both partners have figured out a way to deal with their conflicts.
4. The Comfort/Commitment Stage
The commitment stage is the fourth stage of relationships. This occurs after both partners have gotten used to each other, and want to prove to each other that their love is real by committing to a long future together.
Thursday, June 2, 2016
Taylor Swift and Calvin Harris split up after just 15 months of dating
Taylor Swift and Calvin Harris have called time on their relationship.
The pop power pair started dating last March and their romance appeared to be going from strength to strength, but sources have confirmed to Mirror Celebs that their relationship has now ended its course.
"There was no drama. Things just don't work out sometimes," an insider told People magazine.Just last month Taylor gushed about their "magical relationship" - and there was even talk of marriage."I'm just taking things as they come. I'm in a magical relationship right now. And of course I want it to be ours, and low key... This is the one thing that's been mine about my personal life," she said.
The musician, who previously dated stars including Jake Gyllenhaal, Harry Styles and Taylor Lautner, admitted the attention on her personal life put her off dating for a long time before she met Calvin.
"You know, I went out on a normal amount of dates in my early 20s, and I got absolutely slaughtered for it," the 26-year-old added.
"And it took a lot of hard work and altering my decision-making. I didn't date for two and a half years. Should I have had to do that? No."
The Love Story singer and Calvin - real name Adam Wiles - were set up by mutual pal Ellie Goulding who introduced them at the BRIT Awards afterparty in London in 2015.
Friday, May 27, 2016
4 Fantastic Places for The Perfect Quickie
Yes, we have that moment IT wasn't anticipated and we were caught in a tight situation or a place where we think it can't happen. Well, I have compiled a list of unprecedented locations where s3x happens.
There are a couple of positions that will work well for desks:
A car is a great place because all you have to do is pull over and go
down on her! The trick to a successful quickie in a car is to pick the
right location.Look for roads that don’t get a lot of traffic. Residential neighborhoods are great for this, but you need to be very careful!It’s best to wait until after dark, so others cannot see directly into your car and fewer people will be outside.
Please note: The backseat will give you more room to try different poses. Cowgirl (her on top) is the easiest one to pull off for both the back- and the front seat. If you have an SUV or a roomy backseat, I highly recommend a doggy style or missionary.
What better place to have a quickie than in the shower? It’s romantic, steamy, and both of you are already naked!
You can be as loud and wild as you want, just be careful not to slip. Make sure that there’s plenty of foreplay to get her going and make it easier to get inside.
Please note: Try positions such as standing doggy, standing missionary, over the edge or in the backdoor.
There’s no better way to improve productivity than with a little
mid-day quickie. Making passionate love in your office can be risky, but
it’s so worth it!
Meet for a lunch or schedule a meeting – whatever it takes to grab some alone time together.
The biggest issue is that offices, in general, have a lot of windows. Make sure that you close the blinds, lock the door and let others know that you’re on a break.
Keep in mind: The great thing about an office is that you have plenty of options to choose from. You can do it doggy style over the side of the desk, try cowgirl sitting in a chair or missionary position on the couch. Just remember to keep your voice down to avoid getting caught and fired!
4. Your Desk
No matter whether you’re at home or in your private office at work, you can throw everything off the desk, throw her down on top and go to town.There are a couple of positions that will work well for desks:
- Doggy style
- Sneak-a-peak – Have her lay on her back on top of the table with her butt hanging just off the edge. Hold onto her thighs or place her feet on your shoulders.
- Lying down scissors – Have her lay down on her back on top of it. Cross her legs and have one foot rest on each shoulder. This maximizes pleasure for both of you by making it easier to stimulate her clitoris and making her feel tighter on your member.
- Leg wrap – Have her sit at the edge of the table and wrap her legs around you.
3. Your Car
A car is a great place because all you have to do is pull over and go
down on her! The trick to a successful quickie in a car is to pick the
right location.Look for roads that don’t get a lot of traffic. Residential neighborhoods are great for this, but you need to be very careful!It’s best to wait until after dark, so others cannot see directly into your car and fewer people will be outside.Please note: The backseat will give you more room to try different poses. Cowgirl (her on top) is the easiest one to pull off for both the back- and the front seat. If you have an SUV or a roomy backseat, I highly recommend a doggy style or missionary.
2. The Shower
You can be as loud and wild as you want, just be careful not to slip. Make sure that there’s plenty of foreplay to get her going and make it easier to get inside.
Please note: Try positions such as standing doggy, standing missionary, over the edge or in the backdoor.
1. Your Office
There’s no better way to improve productivity than with a little
mid-day quickie. Making passionate love in your office can be risky, but
it’s so worth it!Meet for a lunch or schedule a meeting – whatever it takes to grab some alone time together.
The biggest issue is that offices, in general, have a lot of windows. Make sure that you close the blinds, lock the door and let others know that you’re on a break.
Keep in mind: The great thing about an office is that you have plenty of options to choose from. You can do it doggy style over the side of the desk, try cowgirl sitting in a chair or missionary position on the couch. Just remember to keep your voice down to avoid getting caught and fired!
Thursday, May 26, 2016
7 Common Lies Men Say To Get You In Bed
As a lady you should beware and never believe everything a man tells you, it’s left for you to discern if he’s being honest or is a player and trying to seduce you.
Sometimes when you are with a hot guy who is trying to get you into bed, you have to remember that there are certain lies men would tell just to hook up with you and score.
As a lady you should beware and never believe
everything a man tells you. It’s left for you to discern if he’s being honest or is a player and trying to seduce you.
Inspired by All Women Stalk, here are 7 common lies
men tell to get you into bed
1. “I never do this”: He wants to score , so he’ll make you feel special and take away the thoughts of you being ‘just another girl’ away from your mind.
2. “I can’t wait to be a dad”: If you are all for family
first, he’ll make you think he’s serious about marriage and wants to have kids. This is in turn will
make you feel like you’re sleeping with a potential husband which is very deceitful.
3. “I’m single”: He can’t tell you he’s in a serious relations because you’ll run in the other direction.
He’ll make you take his word for it but the best people to ask his true status are his friends.
4. “I Just want to cuddle”: Well… when cuddling gets too much, we all know what happens.
5. “You are amazing”: He’ll never stop complimenting you till he gets into your pants. Don’t trust everything he says.
6. “I have a job that pays well”: This are for girls that love the high income earners. He’ll always tell you he earns up to six figures and may pose with materials things to prove it. Well, till he gets you into bed.
7. “I won’t tell anyone”: You may be worried everyone is going to hear of how you slept with him and he’ll certainly assure you he won’t tell to calm you down.
If he’s the cocky type, it won’t take long for him to blab to his friends.
18+ Cunnilingus 101: Learn to drive her crazy with the art of Cunnilingus
REMEMBER: These TIPS Are Really POWERFUL. They May Make Her ADDICTED to You! Do Not ABUSE Them!
Would you like to hold the keys to the Ultimate Pleasure? If you are like me, the answer is obvious: OF COURSE, I WANT TO MASTER THIS “STUFF”!!! Thankfully, with just a little bit of practice and eight advanced tricks included below (no. 3 will make her soaking wet)
The 6-Step Guide for Eating Her Pussy
1. Set Your Mind to Cunnilingus
If you want to get good at giving her oral s3x (in other words cunnilingus) – I mean really good – you will need to have an attitude that’s entirely different from 99.99% of everybody else’s. You see, most people are eating pu**y like it’s a chore, like they’re being asked to take out the garbage or something.
They go through the motions, do this, touch that; they wiggle back-and-forth for some weird reason – with not actually ever focusing on giving her pleasure first and foremost!
Now:
Just imagine that you are starving, and her cl.i.to.ris and pu**y are the only things that you want to eat after weeks.
That’s what you’re trying to do! You are not mastering some “Buddhist pu**y eating technique”. You need to lead her body, adjust, and elevate the experience for her and her alone. REMEMBER THAT!
2. Tease Your Way Down Her Body
Once you set your mind to the task and she is already naked, you should start teasing as you go “south” on her. The main purpose of this is to build enough anticipation in her to make her climax much more easily.
Here´s the deal:
You should start kissing her whole body (you can even throw a bite or two if she likes that). Always start at her neck and work your way down. Be patient, as you will be licking her pu**y in no time!
Do not spend too much time at her breast and nipples (you should have done that already during undressing). Your primary focus should be her:
- Belly
- Pelvic bone
- Pubic bone
Use your hands and fingers for extra stimulation as well. Just remember not to go inside her – your goal is to tease her playfully!
Keep in mind: If you do all of this, properly she should already be wet enough and wanting you to go directly to lick her pu**y and cl.i.to.ris. However, you need to do the opposite instead! Read the third point for more directions.
3.Use Kiss, Bite & Deep Breath Method
Let’s continue! You have ended by kissing her lower belly and pubic bone. Now, when she expects you to go for it, just blow on her pu**y as you go over it slowly (never blow air into her vagina at this will cause serious health problems that may have fatal consequences!!!) and start kissing inner sides of her thighs.
Begin in the area of her knee and go slowly and teasingly from there towards her vagina. You can switch between kisses and very soft bites (this area is very sensitive so be extra gentle with your teeth!).
Then:
Once you are near her pu**y, again blow slowly on it and go to other leg and repeat above steps. By this time, she should be soaking wet and beg you to eat her out already!
Keep in mind: Her tension and anticipation should be at the highest levels! This is the time to go to the next point.
4. Going to Action! 4 Bulletproof Techniques You Have to Try
If you have followed all the steps above to the point, she should be dying for you to take action! At this point, you can choose to build her tension by slightly licking her only with the tip of your tongue, or you can go for full licks of her whole vagina.
There are many techniques for you to choose from:
The basic move – Lick her whole vagina with flat and relaxed tongue in slow motion from the bottom (her opening) up to her cl.i.to.ris. While returning down to repeat this move, follow her inner and outer labia on one side by the tip of your tongue. The second time you need to focus on her lips on the other side. This is a very simple technique worth beginning with!
The lips check up – You can spread her labia from each other with your hands and suck on each of her inner lips. Outer ones are worth kissing a lot. Do not forget to pay attention to each of her labia!
The tongue penetration – Technique that is very easy to follow. All you need to do is to stick out your tongue, make it hard and do the movements you normally do with your penis while penetrating her. This move is great as it leaves her cl.i.to.ris without your attention for a while and in this way it builds more anticipation in her. If you do this, she will think that you are pu**y eating GOD!
The cl.i.to.ris flicker & sucker – This method is very intense on her cl.i.to.ris so avoid it if she is too sensitive in that area. You need to expose it by pulling her hood away with your finger. Once exposed, put your mouth all over her cl.i.to.ris. Then start flicking it with your tongue (add some up & down, side-to-side and circular motions into the mix). If she can handle such stimulation, then suck on it a little bit and escalate your vacuum and suction until she reaches a very intense orgasm! However, use this move only when she is really hot and close to climaxing as it may be too much for her from beginning.
Try to moan during each technique. By doing this, you will send tiny sound waves and vibrations towards her cl.i.to.ris that will make her cum sooner. You can even try to stimulate her anus with your finger if she is into it.
Keep in mind: Always treat her cl.i.to.ris very slowly from the beginning as some women are too sensitive to direct stimulation. If this is the case, you should lick and suck all around it and its hood but never go for a direct hit!
5. Dive In With Your Fingers
The best thing you can do to make eating her out even better is to make use of your fingers as well! You should rather use two (your middle and index) because she will already be well aroused from your work on her cl.i.to.ris and that means one would be too skinny.
Here are some tips for you before you enter her:
- Make them wet to avoid skin irritation!
- Do not forget to trim your nails!
Once everything is prepared, penetrate her slowly with the “in and out” motion at first, and then gradually increase your speed and thrusting.
This is crucial:
Try to adapt to her rhythm that will change according to her arousal levels (the more she is horny, the more you should speed it up). You can always identify how aroused she is by listening to the way she breaths!
6. Do Not Stop When Orgasm is Approaching!
Do not, I repeat DO NOT stop if she is reaching climax!
You might be wondering:
How should you know that? There are several bulletproof signs you can look for while giving her head:
- Hard nipples! This is individual for each woman and may be just a sign of arousal.
- The skin on her face or chest may flush red!
- Her body is shaking and trembling!
- Her breathing is really fast!
Your priority should be to learn her individual signs of coming orgasm. Just be sensitive and perceptive to her preferences.
If you see that she is reaching her climax, try to leave your tongue on the bottom of her cl.i.to.ris while stimulating its hood by your lips at the same time!
Keep in mind: Never fight her movements! If she is lifting her pelvis, you should copy her. What is more, do not stop working on her cl.i.to.ris once she is close to climaxing. This way you may give her even multiple orgasms at once! Eating pu**y is one of the best skills you should master so practice, practice, practice!
Just remember to keep this guide in your mind the next time you are going down on her. I bet that if you will follow it to the point she will experience the best “head” of her life and will be glad to return the favor to you!
SOURCE: STALLION STYLE
Tuesday, May 24, 2016
3 Things That’ll Make Him Cheat On You
As much as cheating is a bad thing, sometimes it will cause certain situations or unfavorable characters displayed by one partner to another.
A man is responsible for the choices he make, including the choice to cheat, but if as a lady you make it easy for him to do it, then cheating is inevitable.
Inspired by YourTango, here are 3 things that’ll make a man cheat on you
1. You do not appreciate him enough;
Everybody loves to be showered with praises and appreciated by their partners. Once this stops and disrespect and ungratefulness creeps in , you can be sure your man will find some other woman that’ll fill in that position temporarily.
2. He cheated on someone else to be with you;
It’s simply a case of what goes around comes around. A woman of integrity wouldn’t want to date with a man who’ll cheat on someone else rather than come clean about his feelings.
3. You are insecure
Nobody likes an insecure woman. A man cannot hang around an insecure woman for too long, he’ll walk away with someone else. You have to trust that you man will not cheat on you which means you have to be confident and smart, those are sexy traits that’ll make a man want to stay with you.
Monday, May 23, 2016
How To Stop Him From Cheating On You
Cheating to every lady is normal with guys, some feel there is no saint out there when it comes to having a perfect partner. When a guy starts cheating, it does not necessarily means that he does not love you any more. The whole cheating thing might be as a result of something missing in the relationship, maybe sexually, physically or emotionally .
We learn to cope with this attitude and it has become part of us, like every man cheats and nothing can be done about it. Love is the foundation of a genuine relationship but you need other ingredients to to sustain the relationship. Here are some things you need to do to keep your partner from cheating.
1. Be ready to try out new things (Experiments )
It can be easy to get comfortable and fear of the unknown can stop you from being open to different sexual experiences. Allow your man to try new things with you. If you won’t, there will be someone else who will. I’m not saying to engage in sexual activity you find repulsive but allow yourself to experience new things with the man you love.
2. Do not feel in control of the relationship.
Often without realizing it, when we get into relationships we attempt to control the other person to do what works best for us. We engage in destructive relationship habits such as complaining, blaming, criticizing, nagging, threatening, punishing and bribing or rewarding to control.
3. Be familiar with his love language.
Being aware of your partners love language is essential in a relationship. It helps to avoid embarrassment from partner, when he says you are hot you should understand this compliment in the right way. Also tell him sweet words using his kind of love language, as it has the potential to save more marriages than marriage counseling has. Learn your man’s love language and speak it to him regularly. He will know he is loved and remain true to you.
4. Be willing to bring in sex.
Men equate sex with desirability. Don't make him always ask for it. Give it to him. Help your man to feel desired by expressing your love in a physical way. Alway try to satisfy him in bed, like make him feel like a man when you are with him in a confine place.
5. Don’t be too quick to accommodate.
Sometimes in a relationship, a woman can become too accommodating. Men get into relationships with a very clear picture of what a lifetime partner looks like and this is often in stark contrast to whom he may have dated casually. Women work to become the person their partner wants them to be and in doing so, they lose themselves. One day, their man realizes this is what he asked for but he isn’t sure it’s what he really wants. Maintain a healthy sense of self in your relationship.
6. Always show concern.
In a relationship you ought to be concerned about your partner and what he is going through. Never let him to do the thinking and worries alone, show care emotionally and otherwise so he don’t think he is alone and then explain his troubles to another lady.
7. Show how important your relationship is.
Often, when a man cheats, you will find the woman is also having an “affair” that’s not sexual. It’s more socially appropriate. This “affair” takes the form of prioritizing something, anything, over the relationship. This could be a job, a friend, children, a sick relative, a charity or anything that puts her man lower on her totem pole than the first position.
Prioritize your relationship over everything else. This is the relationship you want to last for all your life. Other things will fade away and the relationship will still be there if you tend to it carefully.
7 Qualities That Would Make Him Love You
Yes....you've got a great body?? So what?? Yeah, you are articulate??? Who cares?? There are certain things you should keep in mind for a guy to officially call you his.
These are 7 qualities that inspire men to give their heart fully.
1. Self-developed and Independent.
You have a well-rounded life that you’ve created for yourself that includes healthy friendships and an outlet for service. You’re most likely a reader, and devour things that interest you. Quite often you initiate and contribute a fresh perspective when conversing with your man. You’ve developed your personal philosophies by thinking through and researching several viewpoints. You are confident about your opinions without being dogmatic.
Men love a woman who is intelligent, articulate, and open minded. You have to do homework to be this kind of woman.
2. Being Respectful .
You appreciate him with your words, affection, time, and your gaze. When he walks through the door, you stop what you’re doing, stand up and greet him: the man you love just walked in.
Do this no matter how busy you are. Do this even if you’ve been married 10 years. It shows respect.
3. Appreciating and Accepting his Financial Status.
As a conscious woman, you are clear about your financial comfort zone, and you are aware of the economics of your coupling BEFORE you get married.
There has been a major financial reset button since the economy took a dump in 2008 and there has been a sharp rise in entrepreneurship, which means many people who are in their 30’s, 40’s, 50’s are starting over and living financially leaner. Some people are doing just fine. And some people have great wealth.
Get real with yourself. If a “simple life” to him translates as “destitute and poor” to you, you need to find someone who is on the same economic page as you. Do not go into denial because you are in love and then complain about his job choice and your shared standard of living after you are married.
4. Being Reserve.
You maintain a certain privacy, no matter how long you have been together. Not a sly withholding or secretiveness, but an aura of dignity. You don’t air every thought and emotion that comes into your head. Your man knows it would take a 100 years to unravel you, and that’s because you have maintained a reserve for yourself. You are committed to your own borders of Self for the rest of your life.
5. Being Sexually Alive.
You’re open with yourself and generous to him. You’re lit up by him and welcome his desire. You generate your own sexual appetite. You’ve educated yourself in this regard.
If you have past issues with abuse, the most loving thing you can do for YOURSELF is get it dealt with. It is not acceptable to resign yourself to “I was abused” as a reason to stay unexpressed sexually and shut down your partner’s natural desires. It’s a tremendous disservice to live a low-sex existence because of your abuse, and put that on your husband. It’s your responsibility to make sure that your sexuality is healthy and accessible to the AMAZING man you love. Be delicious for him.
6. Being Supportive
You embrace and support his choice to have a close, nurturing relationship with his children. This means you will, as a couple, be spending time, money, and attention on them.
When men go through divorce, one of the worst fears they deal with is missing out on their kids’ lives. They had a dream when their children were born. Make sure that, on your watch, he gets to live his dream of being an amazing father. Give him the love, freedom, and acceptance to fully engage with his kids.
7. Trust .
You do not overspend, overeat, become crazy religious, develop emotional relationships with other men, or break his confidence with your mom, sister, or girlfriends. You are faithful. Yes, all of these are areas of faithfulness.
Others:
You will never find a man that stays single, sleeps with lots of women, has no kids, spends no time with his family, drinks and does drugs, truly happy with his life.
Women have taken on the roles of provider, mom, girlfriend, and so much more. They seldom need a man anymore or want one unless they meet a list of expectations…
If you are attracted to a man, see if they are hard workers, and make sure they are honest people. This of course is the same for men. Stop complaining or being drama. When your husband isn’t sure what to do about work, support him and encourage him to be great…but if he chooses to be a garbage truck man…be happy and stick with him no matter what his choices are.
Wives should be loving, caring, individuals that encourage their husband, and create an environment at home of support, respect, trust, and most of all fun and some excitement.
Have sex with your man frequently…he will seldom stray if he is happy at home. Few men (except the douchewagons) would ever leave a woman he loved if she cared for him in this fashion. And most likely, a man that is only inspired to be the garbage man would run a garbage service empire and be quite successful and wealthy if he had this type of support at home. Instead we often end up in relationships filled with fights, complaints, lack of sex, and lots of drama.
Sunday, May 22, 2016
8 Things You Should Never Say Right After Sex
There are many things you should never, ever, EVER say to a dude after you’ve gotten it on with him—like, no matter what. Check out some of the worst things a lady can say post-sex from real people and relationship experts.
1. “The worst thing a woman can say to a man after sex is, ‘That was nice.’ Sex isn’t supposed to be ‘nice’—it’s sex. Anything short of ‘wow’ and a guy will think he didn’t perform well.” —Thomas Edwards,
2. “The worst thing you can ever say or talk about to a guy after sex is mentioning anything remotely about, related to, or concerning his mother . It will deflate that mood in less than a nanosecond. Trust me, I’m guilty as charged.” —Tanya T
3. “‘OK. You can leave now.’ Kind of heartless. Also—bossy.” —Amy Schoen
4. “‘We have to hurry, my boyfriend will be here soon.'” —Terri
5. “‘That’s not what I expected.’ This line can be crushing because it hits at the core of a man’s self-image.” —William Cane
6. “The worst thing a woman can say to a guy after sleeping with him is anything in comparison to anyone else she’s been with. Guys don’t want to hear any of that, good or bad. As a couple’s therapist, I’ve seen this cause unnecessary fights and relationship trouble—keep your focus on him!” — Rachel Thomasian
7. “Never say, ‘I wish you could’ve lasted longer.’ This will only add pressure, it won’t solve the problem.” — Adam LoDolce
8. ‘I love you but I’m not in love with you.’ It’s a non-sensical and meaningless phrase which hurts, but doesn’t clarify anything. It also indicates that the sayer of it doesn’t have a clue what love is—not that anyone can define love for the rest of us.” —Russell Friedman
Wednesday, May 11, 2016
2 BRUTALLY HONEST WAYS TO KNOW IF YOU’RE TRULY READY FOR A RELATIONSHIP
Forget your Mr. or Mrs. Right fantasies, relationships are about something MUCH more important. Being "relationship-ready" is nothing more than being willing to go for it.
And “going for it” means that you are truly willing to be in the foxhole with your partner. It means that you maintain a relationship where you are equals, that is collaborative, and where there is consistent attitude of fairness, justice, and sensitivity. But you can’t do that alone. Your partner must be on board with you completely in this matter. Otherwise it’s just the sound of one hand clapping.
1. What is the perfect relationship for you?
Forget the usual Mr. Right or Mrs. Right fantasies, or any similar idealized version of a person that exists in your head. If you simply look for someone who is tall, or has this feature or that feature that you think you need, you may end up with the person you like, but that does not prepare you to have a great relationship. Don't get me wrong, having your physical qualities is not bad, just don't let it to be your base for being with that person.
The wise thing to do when readying yourself for a relationship is to think about what the relationship must be. Not just for you, for the other person as well.
Yes, the one you haven’t met yet. That means that instead of making a “best features” list, make a list about what the relationship should be; not just for this time … but for all time.
For instance, once you are together, you might both agree that the relationship comes first above all other matters, if that is an important value to you. Or let’s say you believe in putting the relationship first above all other matters, and you find someone who doesn’t agree. Would that be a deal-breaker for you? And if not, why not?
2. Are you being realistic about your deal-breakers?
All people are annoying and difficult and burdensome. That goes for you and me, too. But that doesn’t have to be a problem. The truth is, in a love relationship you are both supposed to accept each other as one another’s burdens. Otherwise you may ask yourself, why do it at all? If you’re going into a relationship for good sex, passionate love, common interests, or physical appearance, prepare yourself for being disappointed, because nobody will meet all of those expectations all the time. But if you are going into this with your eyes open and with a collaborative heart (and your partner is doing that, also) be prepared for a great relationship.
7 QUALITIES OF A GREAT SEX PARTNER
There comes a point when those one night stands and random encounters stop being so fun and exciting, and start wearing on you. As hot as they can be, what’s even hotter is being with someone who knows you inside and outside of the bedroom.
Having a partner as opposed to someone to play around with allows you to explore different sex positions, tactics, movement and sensations that you can’t explore with as much comfort when you’re with a stranger. But when you reach this critical point – where being someone’s partner is more important than getting laid — it’s time to take a long, hard look at what you’re bringing to the bedside table. “A great sex partner is someone that is committed to the experience of having healthy, fun and satisfying sex that is mutually pleasurable,” says licensed marriage and family therapist, Marissa Nelson, LMFT, CST. “ It is important for men to be a great sex partner because instead of sex acting as validation for a guy’s sense of manhood, or only being about perfect sexual performance, they focus on pleasure and creating a space for exploration, excitement, naughtiness and sexual satisfaction for themselves and partner.” How do you know if you’re bringing the highest level of sexual commitment, attentiveness and intensity to your partner? Here, experts share the qualities of an incredible sex partner. Consider this your check off list:
1. A great sex partner knows how to communicate
In every relationships, there are always sensitive topics: past love history, your first big fight where you completely disagree and that big moment when you give constructive criticism in the bedroom.
As touchy as it may feel to talk about what gets you going and what simply isn’t working, it’s the first step in building intimacy and showing you’re a dedicated partner.
“Knowing what you like and telling your partner exactly how to help you feel good is great communication and allows the focus to be strictly on pleasure,” says relationship expert Dr. Lexx Brown-James, LMF.
If you’re not sure how to get the conversation going, licensed marriage and family therapist, Esther Boykin, LMFT, says asking questions is an easy starting point to open up dialogue.
“The ability to talk about sex is key to creating and maintaining good sexual chemistry,” she says.
“Learn to get comfortable asking your partner about their likes and their fantasies; and don’t wait to be asked to share yours. A great partner is one who is willing to set the stage for honest and loving communication about sex. After all how can you learn how to please each other if you aren’t willing to even talk about it.”
2. A Great Sex Partner Is In Charge Of Their Own Orgasm
Allow the experts (and women everywhere) to set the record straight: it is not your partner’s responsibility to make sure you finish at the end of oral or physical intercourse. In fact, what’s sexier and better when you’re someone’s partner, in life and in bed, is taking charge of your orgasm so they know exactly what you need.
“Taking sexual charge is hot. Sexual confidence is a turnon and knowing your body (and how to manipulate it pleasurably) can also be highly erotic,” says Brown-James.
“Doing these things make a great sex partner baseline and you can add from there to meet your partner’s needs.”
No one wants to spend more time down south because you’re holding on for as long as you can to get the most action, and after she’s orgasmed, she likely doesn’t want to spend another 30 minutes trying to get you to. Be in charge of your sexuality, your orgasm and the things that make you a sexual being — just don’t forget to show her so she learns, too.
3. A Great Sex Partner Can Get Out Of Their Own Way
Even if you’re healthy, active and in superb shape, it’s not always about your body. More times than not, it’s about your mind.
What are you thinking about during foreplay?
Or
when you first start having sex?
Do you spend so much time in your head that you don’t allow yourself to be fully engaged in the moments you’re missing by thinking?
“Our biggest sex organ is out brain! If our minds are all over the place and we are not able to remain present, then it will make it more difficult to enjoy sexual activity and to be a good sexual partner,” says Dr. Rachel Needle, licensed clinical psychologist and certified sex therapist.
The next time you’re getting frisky with your girl, experts say you should focus on the simplest things she’s doing, right in that moment (the way her face moves as she gets turned on, how she reaches for you, the way her breasts move when she’s on top) to keep your mind exactly where it should be: savoring every freakin’ second of sex.
4. A Great Sex Partner Is Curious And Open To Change
Consider what turned you on when you were 16. Then at 21. How about 25?
Just like you evolve in your career and your social circle, your desires and needs change, too. When you’re a good sexual partner, you want to continuously feel connected to the person you’re making love to, and to do that, you have to not only be willing to try new things but allow their intimate feelings to change, too.
“The best part of human relationships, and often the most challenging, is that we are always growing and changing,” Boykin says.
“This dynamic and evolving nature can be especially fun in your sex life but only if you keep an open-minded curiosity about each other. Great sex partners know that great sex starts with a commitment to keep learning and exploring your partner’s body and mind.”
5. A Great Sex Partner Doesn’t Skimp On The Foreplay
FACT: If you don’t think by now, you should: women need foreplay more than men.
When you’re warming up for a big race — as sex can often be like — you have to stretch everything out and warm up before crossing that finish line.
If you have the same kiss, touch, lick and spank tango, your girlfriend is probably getting tired of it already.
“The good news is that foreplay need not be relegated to some kind of step-by-step routine you learned in high school. A great sex partner knows that foreplay is anything that increases the anticipation of sex in their partner,” Boykin says.
“Sexy text messages, a photo, a massage, a little help around the house- whatever it takes to help your partner transition from the busy-ness of their daily routine into a mental (and physical) space that is focused on experiencing pleasure counts as foreplay.”
The key to foreplay, really, is making sure your partner is happy.
Why?
When they’re at their happiest and most comfortable, that’s when they will let go sexually and both of you will have a better time.
6. A Great Sex Partner Is Confident
“Confidence and assertiveness isn’t about always taking charge or always initiating. Rather it’s a quality that allows you to be flexible and secure as you navigate the ebb and flow of sexuality in your relationship,” Boykin says.
“Great sex partners don’t shy away from adventure or vulnerability in sex; they embrace it with self-assurance. That willingness to put yourself out there and trust that you have something amazing to offer your sex partner is often a self-fulfilling prophecy leading you to be the greatest sex partner they ever had.”
By showing your partner that you are a sexual being and you’re confident in your abilities, you’re illustrating that you’re going to be in charge of your sexual destiny.
This way, she knows you’re always up for something and always willing to learn.
“Just remember that confidence is not the same as cockiness (no pun intended),” Boykin notes.
“You still need to be curious and attentive to your partner’s needs but when you ask do so with the confidence that whatever they need, you are the man who can give it to them.”
7. A Great Sex Partner Has Fun Ultimately, the point of sex is to enjoy yourselves, right?
No one has sex because it’s horrible, a bad experience and something they ‘have to do.’ (And if they are, that’s your first problem, bro.)
Nelson says that being an awesome partner is someone who loves having sex and especially, loves having sex with you.
“You should make sex lively, entertaining and enjoyable. Don’t be afraid to share a laugh, try crazy positions, try sex toys together or go on a hunt for that spot you read about,” she says.
“Some playfulness, mixed with adventure and some steamy moments makes for an incredibly awesome sex life, thanks to you.”
SOURCE: InfoNg
Thursday, April 21, 2016
Cristiano Ronaldo's girlfriend is a Barca fan
It seems Cristiano Ronaldo doesn't let his iconic Real Madrid status affect his love life as rumours are swirling that he's dating a woman whose allegiances lie with Clasico arch-rivals Barcelona!
Former Manchester United attacker Ronaldo, 31, has been spotted mingling with beautiful Mexican pilot Alejandro Manriquez in recent weeks, posing for pictures on board a flight before sharing dinner.
The photos were uploaded to social network site Instagram by Manriquez's account and the pair can be seen smiling together.
See their photos below;
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Tuesday, April 19, 2016
Rob Kardashian insists wedding witn Blac Chyna won't be televised
The question on everyone's mind has been whether the cameras will be rolling when Rob Kardashian says 'I do' to Blac Chyna.
But Rob has dashed all hopes of that happening - insisting his wedding won't be televised when the big day finally swings around.
The couple, who recently got engaged following a whirlwind romance, were spotted arriving in LAX Airport in Los Angeles on Monday.
A TMZ reporter caught up with the pair while they waited for their bags and quizzed them about what we can expect when they tie the knot.
After being told the ceremony could be the biggest TV spectacular ever, Rob ended up nipping the suggestion in the bud.
He said:
"I'm not televising anything. I'm really just trying to be happy, that's all. Everybody's happy."Rob also revealed that he's been cheating on his diet.
The 29-year-old has recently shed an incredible 50lbs but confessed he's been snacking on fatty foods such as pizza.
Brushing off the idea that the grub has derailed his diet, he explained:
"It's cool. I cheat. I'm a cheater."
Friday, April 8, 2016
Man accidentally chats up mum and daughter on dating app in same night it all ends in tears
Zack, feeling a bit lonely after his move from Essex to Manchester, decided one evening to try and find some company before stumbling across 37-year-old Vicky and 20-year-old Chelsey, according to the Lad Bible.
Unknown to him, the pair share the same surname - Rochford - and were fully aware of what he'd done.
However they decided to have some fun before letting him in on the joke which he took with good grace, but only after one final cheeky request to them both.
Read the full text conversations below - one string of messages to the daughter is on the left and those sent to the mum are on the right.
He started off similarly with both women
And asked them both to meet him...
Then the awkward truth was revealed
But that didn't stop him...
And everyone ended up in tears
They still gave him 10/10
